How Can I Avoid Being Pushed Out By My Colleagues?

If one day, when you find your colleagues suddenly change their normal state, no longer be friendly to you, act uncooperative with each other, and set difficulties for you everywhere, make trouble for you, make a fool of yourself, watch your jokes, you have to be careful. These messages send a dangerous signal to you: the same thing is pushing you away. There must be some reasons for being pushed out by colleagues.

    These are the reasons.

  Recently, upgrading has attracted many colleagues' jealousy.

You have just come to work in this unit. You have enviable advantages. Including high educational background, background and outstanding appearance, all of these may make colleagues jealous.

The way to deal with this situation is also very natural. The so-called "no envy is a mediocre person", and it is not a losing face to attract envy. In fact, as long as you are friendly and kind to your colleagues on weekdays, your colleagues are not hard to find that you are an honest person, and will be happy to associate with you as time passes. In addition, you can cultivate your charm of chatting, because one of your greatest hobbies is chatting, changing your attitude towards your colleagues through chatting.

Hire your people to be a nuisance in the company, so even you are involved.

Answer: This is your own misfortune, and only if you have the opportunity to show your colleagues that your job is mainly to enjoy the job, not to the person who hired you, but not to him. As long as your colleagues know that you are not a spy, you will be welcome.

The clothes are strange, the conversation is excessive and the love is limelight.

It is too much to please the superiors and neglect to associate with colleagues.

Answer: you need to reflect first, because the problem is on yourself. If you want to change your opinions, you can only improve yourself. Do not make any surprising remarks at ordinary times. If you want to learn to be an audience, dress should also be in keeping with your identity. It should be neat and not flaunt. Too much clothing will not bring convenience to you. If you are not a stuffed bunker or just to show off, this will make your colleagues a hostile target.

It hinders colleagues from getting benefits, including promotions, raises and so on.

Answer: you should pay attention to your work. Promotion, salary increase, improvement of conditions and even a verbal commendation by leaders are all the rewards that colleagues want to win. Competition is unavoidable. Although everyone works very hard, they all know each other tacitly, and everyone wants to get a priority reward right.